Choosing sex toys as a trans woman
There is no separate category of trans toys - there are toys and there are bodies. Here is which suit which, accounting for hormones, surgery and sensation, plainly.
Month: July 2026
Sex toys for lesbian and queer couples
There is no set of toys you are supposed to want as a couple. Here is what tends to earn a place between women - and how to share it safely.
Beginner butt plug guide: size, shape and care
Anal play has two rules that matter more than everything else: go slow, and use plenty of lube. Get those right, choose a flared-base toy, and here is the rest.
Bondage starter kit: what to check first
A good first foray into bondage needs less kit than the internet suggests: a blindfold, soft restraints, and an agreed way to stop. Here is the kit and the groundwork.
How to choose a dildo: size, shape and materials
Choosing a dildo comes down to four things: material, size, shape, and features. Sort those and you end up with something you actually reach for.
Kegel balls: what to know before using them
Kegel balls give your pelvic floor something to work against. Here is how they work, how to use them comfortably, and when a professional is the better first step.
Orgasm from penetration alone: what to know
Only around a quarter of women reliably orgasm from penetration alone. The reason is anatomical, not personal - here is what is actually going on.
Choosing a clitoral suction toy
Suction toys stimulate the clitoris through air pressure rather than direct vibration - deeper and less numbing for many people. Here is how to choose one.
Mental load and libido: when everyday demands affect sex
When your mind is carrying the day, desire can be harder to find. Here is why that happens - and ways to make room for it, together.
How to clean sex toys
How you clean a sex toy starts with what it is made of. Warm water, unscented soap, a proper dry - here is the whole of it, plainly.