
October 2, 2026
Mismatched libidos means partners want sexual contact at different frequencies or times. One person might often want sex while another rarely does. You might both want it, but at times that seldom overlap. The useful starting point is understanding what each person wants, rather than deciding which level of desire is correct. Differences can be […]

Responsive desire describes interest in sex that develops in response to something welcome, such as a kiss, a fantasy or pleasurable touch. Spontaneous desire describes wanting sex before that stimulation begins. You might experience both, and the pattern can change. The terms can help you describe an experience. They cannot tell you whether you should […]

July 5, 2026
Only around a quarter of women reliably orgasm from penetration alone. The reason is anatomical, not personal - here is what is actually going on.

Straight women orgasm about 65% of the time during partnered sex; women with women, 86%. The gap is real, well documented, and closable - here is what actually moves it.

March 20, 2024
The visible glans is only part of the clitoris. Eight things worth knowing about anatomy, sensitivity and touch, minus the myths.

November 29, 2020
Struggling to orgasm is common and there's no single trick you've missed. What can play a part, what to try, and when to talk to a GP.

Keen to take your masturbation game up a notch? Whether you want to explore your body on a deeper level, improve your technique or give yourself your first ever orgasm, there are plenty of ways to satisfy yourself through solo sex.

November 28, 2020
Pleasure can build through clitoral touch, penetration, nipples or fantasy, and orgasms feel different for different people. Here's what actually changes the experience.